All things considered, I’ve had a pretty easy life. Both of my parents were in the military when I was born, but I’ve moved around very little. I was born in Virginia Beach, but I moved to Northern Virginia when I was a baby. When I was 4 I moved to Florida where my mom retired to be a full time mother. About two years later my family moved back to where we were living before, and the next time I moved was when I went to Virginia Tech to pursue a computer science degree. I didn’t realized it until later, but I had unwittingly followed in my parent’s footsteps, both of whom had received degrees in computer science. I noticed that I was attracted to men when I was 12 or 13, but I didn’t come out to even myself until college… there’s a separate story of shame and denial there that is maybe more another time. I came out to my parents when I was 19, and through trial and error and being critical of myself and what is good for me, I had a handful of boyfriends over my four years in college, each of whom was a better match than the previous. Now I am a graduate who has a job that he loves and someone whom he will marry one day. I’ve had a lot of advantages in my life, but I have used them well. I am in the process of buying from my parents, the house that I live in now with my three roommates, plus my partner, and we are a family.